My son CJ @ 28
My son CJ is a master certified Mercedez Benz tech and lost his job because he became addicted to herion. I think he is clean from it now but I believe he is on cocaine or something. I can no longer afford the drug test kits from the drug store to check him now and he has no health ins. He is very bright and hard working but he is lost in life. He lost his 13 year old brother when he was a junior in high school and within 2 weeks connected with a girl who he attached himself to. He managed to go away to UTI in Arizonia for a year and did so well that he graduated 2nd in his class. Mercedez picked him up and trained him at their cost for the next 5 years. During that time his girlfriend left him 4 times for another guy and came back after 6 months or so. The 3rd time she left is when he became addicted to heroin due to depression. He was able to hide this for over a year. During that break-up she would call him to come sleep with her and became pregnant. She moved in with us till she had the baby and left again when the baby was 4 months old for another man which devastated him. Now all she wants is child support and causing problems for him. She has another child with another man within 2 years. Something has happened to his will and is jobless after 2 years with another company as a manager. Was fired from there for drugs but tells me they fired him for hear say from other employees and tells me its not true(at the time). Right after his son was born he lost his father to cancer after previously battling Wegeners Granulomatosis. He is a broken person and they have suspened his drivers liscense for back child support. Its impossible to get things straightened out with the place that handles child support here in nj. You need a lawyer to fill out the paperwork to get things lowered due to income. meanwhile $125.00 a week has been added up and he owes over $4000. which is wrong but he cannot get that cleared up without a lawyers help which he cannot afford. He is a good person with very bad luck and no one to help him. There are warrants out for his arrest for child support and has been in jail twice for this. His whole life is a total mess because of drugs. I am affraid he may try to comment suicide. How can I get help for him?